Happy Father's Day
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY
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PART 1
I have heard a very funny thing, Shenzhen aristocrat kindergarten engage in New Year's Eve party, parents need to personally perform on stage, stage dancing mother are real, and need dads to participate in the "sword dancing", but are for the avatar - Dads are not empty, send their own drivers or company employees, employees to replace. When we first met a Chinese father, he said that when he first came to China, he was not accustomed to participating in children's activities in kindergartens. Because kindergarten children are all mothers and children, most of China are single-parent families. Later learned that this is a typical Chinese-style father, not popular with children, is busy at home answering the phone, watching TV or playing mobile phones, surfing the Internet, just like the neighbor's uncle, occasionally play with children, Chinese dad where to go It? Indeed, Chinese fathers are like "invisible dads". In family education, they often play the role of soy sauce. They often only give their children a look at their busy backs. They belong to the category of "stealth online" and can spend time with their children Too little father
Have a child in the diary affectionate confession: "Dad you accompany me for a day, I will pay you 100 days in the future."
There is another sentence, once on the Internet is also very hot: "dad you do not stay with me, I grew up."
This really makes people sad.
PART 2
Why dads do not accompany children? First of all, in China, we measure a man's success, he is not a good father, has never been one of the criteria. Yu Yu, the kind of three-door but not into the bad father, but enjoy the long-lasting Acura. Second, we advocate the Chinese-style fatherly love, that is, the kind of "back" that is made by Zhu Ziqing. We never think my father should be cordial, amiable, with the children around, playing with him. This leads to dads who think it is right that they should not be with their children. Third, some Chinese men default to having children as women. Our common picture is that the child has any problems, dad righteously accused his wife: how do you bring children? Your child's problems are you used to coming out. However, raising children is a common responsibility of the couple ah. Socializing, meeting, playing games, surfing the internet ... They place a lot of things on top of their children. But there is no non-stop entertainment, only the moment grew up children. Many Chinese dad's default values ​​are: making money for their children is more important and more successful than spending time with their children. For the children, the companionship of the father became a luxury. Dad's most common reason is: "I'm sorry, baby, father to make money, come back to buy a gift for you?" However, to make money and to accompany the children are not antagonistic from the relationship, and to train children, the material will never be the first Conditions, the most important thing is the intention. There are some dad's most common practice is to move to the older generation or ask a nanny to take care of children, come back every day when the child is also happy to get the gift, seemingly mother's childcare pressure relieved, the child and their distance quickly pull near.
PART 3
However, the invisible dads do not know how serious the consequences of not staying with their children. For her daughter, "Invisible Daddy" ruined her normal perception of a man's gender so easily that she could be extremist in her relationship. The father is the first male image in his daughter's life. The girl who was neglected by her father lost the first chance to know men. Therefore, they are either deeply curious about men and over-reliance on men, or they do not know when they are in contact with men Measure, even suffering from men phobia. For boys, long-term father is absent, will become particularly sticky mother, to three or four years old or mummy boy, life will not be able to complete psychological weaning. My friend is a primary school principal. According to her observation, "boys led by their mothers tend to be sticky, squeamish and timid. Because their mums are too careless, their children's creativity and self-care capacity are often inadequate." Hopefully Chinese dads can remember: Do not wait until the child bruises, give him a hug. Do not wait for children to become distant, only remember to accompany.
The last sentence of a speech delivered by former British Prime Minister Gordon Brown during his resignation: "When I left perhaps perhaps the second most important task I have done so far, I value my consideration as the most important task - as a Husband and father. "Being a good father is a very important career for every man. Dad to give children enough time and company, the growth of children do not ignore and will, to participate in children's interest, self-confidence, aesthetic, temperament in all aspects of training.
Childhood is very short
Do not wait for children to be alienated
Only think of companionship
Dad, I want to tell you ...
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Read the video and text above, presumably you also have feeling,
Did your father miss you when you grow up?
Is your child experiencing the missing father?
Father's Day will come, say what you say to your dad, or be grateful, or be out of place, or a slight reproof that has long been relieved, or deep-seated hope, "Dad, I want to tell you ... "
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